My name is Amelia - but feel free to call me Millie, Amy or any other variation you can think of. I'm asexual... Romantic orientation pending.

This is a side blog where I post my asexy stuff, and it's LGBTQ+ friendly. I aim to make this a safe place for aces and allies alike.
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gaiusthegenius:

amelia-ace:

/agressively doesnt understand my own romantic orientation

sometimes I think at least 30% of deciding on aro was just giving up trying to understand what romantic attraction even is

like, fuck it, I don’t have time to be stressing about this I don’t even know what makes a romantic partner different from a friend? But like, a close friend?

(I think that’s why I like Sherlock Holmes so much because that’s the friendship, right? Or Crowley and Aziraphale, or something. A friend that everyone thinks you’re in a romantic relationship with but you’re just besties (which reminds me to get back into Rizzoli and Isles) - but how do you define romantic relationship as different from best friends i do not know 

fuck)

do you see 

do you see my problem

I feel your struggle. Romantic orientation is so fucking hard like WHAT COUNTS AS ROMANTIC ATTRACTION. In my case I know i’m not aro because it doesn’t quite fit? Like the concept of kissing seems quite nice, but I cant work out who I’d want to kiss. And like, which genders I’d be up for kissing.
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space-revolutionary:

apocellipsis:

FUN FACT: it seems like more and more people are coming out as asexual because we finally feel safe enough to do so, it is not a fad, it is not a trend, and if you think it is one of those things please hop on the shut-the-fuck-up train to don’t-fucking-speak-to-me-ville.

Or they are just now discovering this term. We are getting more and more vocal and more and more people are realizing they fit the label. Either way, fuck off if you think it’s a fad.

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iamagreenturtle:

mrprincesshorse:

therainbowgorilla:

alexianfireflies:

therainbowgorilla:

nextstepcake:

"Ace Hardware: No screwing, just lots of screws."
"Ace Hardware: Nail your roof, not your partner."
"Ace Hardware: For when it really is just a hammer in your pocket"
One of my friends wanted to see a photomanip of the ace hardware logo in ace flag colors, and then I thought of these terrible puns, so here you go.

At first I wasn’t going to reblog this but then I saw it again and just started laughing
my two favorite things: asexuality, and puns

and those puns are literally the best

I NEED more asexual puns
those are indeed the best

"Ace Hardware: Lube for your motor, not your junk"

"Ace Hardware: Erecting buildings, not your penis"
"Ace Hardware: Where nuts aren’t genetalia"
"Ace Hardware: The hammer is not our penis. Its just a hammer."
"Ace Hardware: Where muff, is short for muffler"
"Ace Hardware: Yes that is a hammer, but we’re still happy to see you."
"Ace Hardware: You can get Off™ in our repellent aisle”

iamagreenturtle:

mrprincesshorse:

therainbowgorilla:

alexianfireflies:

therainbowgorilla:

nextstepcake:

"Ace Hardware: No screwing, just lots of screws."

"Ace Hardware: Nail your roof, not your partner."

"Ace Hardware: For when it really is just a hammer in your pocket"

One of my friends wanted to see a photomanip of the ace hardware logo in ace flag colors, and then I thought of these terrible puns, so here you go.

At first I wasn’t going to reblog this but then I saw it again and just started laughing

my two favorite things: asexuality, and puns

and those puns are literally the best

I NEED more asexual puns

those are indeed the best

"Ace Hardware: Lube for your motor, not your junk"

"Ace Hardware: Erecting buildings, not your penis"

"Ace Hardware: Where nuts aren’t genetalia"

"Ace Hardware: The hammer is not our penis. Its just a hammer."

"Ace Hardware: Where muff, is short for muffler"

"Ace Hardware: Yes that is a hammer, but we’re still happy to see you."

"Ace Hardware: You can get Off in our repellent aisle

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harmonyinkpress:

bitterlips:

veteratorianvillainy:

harmonyinkpress:

We’re seeking submissions of Young Adult stories with asexual/aromantic main characters! We’re looking for main characters ages 14-18 who experience positive character growth though the story.

Please see the information in the poster above or check our our submission guidelines.

See a more complete list of what we’re looking for at the original post. And please, give us feedback if there’s something you’d like to see that we’ve left out.

I will boost this as much as possible. Seeing ace stories when I was younger would have made a world of difference, and even now that I’m older and know what I identify as, there still aren’t enough stories about people like me. Kudos to HIP for being so proactive about the representation available through their publishing house.

What? A teen story without a romantic interest? Characters learning and growing from the plethora of life experiences that exist outside of relationships?

I know, it’s a radical idea. But we’d like to give it a shot.;)

So I have been watching a lot of Community lately. Abed has made it onto my list of characters who I am claiming as asexual and refusing to hear otherwise.