My name is Amelia - but feel free to call me Millie, Amy or any other variation you can think of. I'm asexual... Romantic orientation pending.

This is a side blog where I post my asexy stuff, and it's LGBTQ+ friendly. I aim to make this a safe place for aces and allies alike.
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Seriously though, if you don’t think asexual representation is important, you need to get educated, because it is really hard to live in a sex-centric culture and not be interested in sex. 

I have seen so many posts about finding out about asexuality after joining tumblr and you know what word almost all over them have in common? Broken. 

And that’s fucked up. 

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/agressively doesnt understand my own romantic orientation

sometimes I think at least 30% of deciding on aro was just giving up trying to understand what romantic attraction even is

like, fuck it, I don’t have time to be stressing about this I don’t even know what makes a romantic partner different from a friend? But like, a close friend?

(I think that’s why I like Sherlock Holmes so much because that’s the friendship, right? Or Crowley and Aziraphale, or something. A friend that everyone thinks you’re in a romantic relationship with but you’re just besties (which reminds me to get back into Rizzoli and Isles) - but how do you define romantic relationship as different from best friends i do not know 


do you see 

do you see my problem

I feel your struggle. Romantic orientation is so fucking hard like WHAT COUNTS AS ROMANTIC ATTRACTION. In my case I know i’m not aro because it doesn’t quite fit? Like the concept of kissing seems quite nice, but I cant work out who I’d want to kiss. And like, which genders I’d be up for kissing.
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FUN FACT: it seems like more and more people are coming out as asexual because we finally feel safe enough to do so, it is not a fad, it is not a trend, and if you think it is one of those things please hop on the shut-the-fuck-up train to don’t-fucking-speak-to-me-ville.

Or they are just now discovering this term. We are getting more and more vocal and more and more people are realizing they fit the label. Either way, fuck off if you think it’s a fad.